
Why We Misread Each Other (And What Changes Everything)
What if most of your relationship struggles weren’t about conflict at all – but about misunderstanding? And that it’s so easy to misread each other? There’s something I’ve noticed again…

What if most of your relationship struggles weren’t about conflict at all – but about misunderstanding? And that it’s so easy to misread each other? There’s something I’ve noticed again…

The 2025 Her True Lens Podcast Episode Guide Sometimes, before anything in our lives truly changes, something quieter shifts first: The way we see things. You might have a new…

Just the idea of friends drifting apart may unleash waves of sadness and loss. Yet, when you think about how much we change over time, it’s astonishing that some friendships…

Ever wonder why listening matters so much? And how listening effectively can change the entire dynamic between two people? A week ago, I was out to dinner with a group…
In Clear Connections, we explore the many relationships that come into our lives and what we can learn from them. Before we begin, it’s important to note, “People with strong…

It took me so long to learn this lesson: The energy you give is what you get. I can remember the day. I was driving along an endless highway, commuting…

Wanting to change someone sounds harsh! It assumes that you aren’t okay with the way they are. Or maybe it’s more subtle. And you don’t enjoy the energy a person…

I’ve done this! Maybe you’ve done it, too. But why do we do it? And what are some reasons to stop putting someone on a pedestal? We all know the…

Last week I had coffee with my friend Lara. Bursting with emotion, she said, “My mom is driving me crazy! She always puts my brother first.” I asked her, “Does…

How can we sometimes easily brush off something that hurts our feelings, like when we don’t get the invitation to a party we’d hoped to attend? Other times, when something…