Hi, I’m Tricia

I help women discover the lens through which they can see their highest life—and guide them in making that vision real through the True Lens Method™.

You know what you want. Now it’s time to create it.

The dust has settled. You’ve moved through the ending, done the reflecting, and begun to imagine what life could look like from here.

And now, you’re ready.

Ready to find love again. To create a relationship that feels different this time. To feel fully like yourself. To build a life that feels exciting, expansive, and deeply yours.

You can see the life you want. But there can still be a gap between seeing it and living it.

Through the True Lens Method™, I help women uncover the stories, patterns, and old ways of seeing that can keep them from moving toward what they want, and begin making the choices that turn that vision into their real life.

This isn’t about starting over. It’s about creating the life and love you want now.

A Life Seen Differently

I’ve always been fascinated by the way we see our lives. And by how much can change when we learn to see differently.

The stories we tell ourselves shape what we believe we deserve. The images we hold shape what we imagine is possible. And the lens through which we see ourselves can quietly influence the choices we make, the relationships we accept, and the lives we create.

My work—through coaching, writing, and conversation—is an exploration of what happens when we begin to question that lens.

What if the story you’ve been living is not the only one available to you? What if the next version of your life begins by seeing yourself, and what is possible for you, in a new way?

This is the heart of everything I create.

I know what it means to reimagine a life.

My life has unfolded in chapters I never could have predicted.

I’ve been a young mother navigating divorce, a single woman rebuilding her life, an optometrist and business owner, a wife, a stepmother, an empty nester, an expat—and, eventually, a coach.

Through all of those chapters, I discovered something that now sits at the heart of my work: we are never limited to one version of our story.

Before becoming a coach, I spent nearly two decades helping people see more clearly as an optometrist. Today, my work is still about vision—but of a different kind.

I help women see beyond the identities and stories that have defined them, reconnect with who they are now, and create a vision for the life they are ready to live.

See Her Now

A podcast about becoming the woman you can already imagine.

See Her Now explores the inner shifts that make outer transformation possible.

Through intimate solo episodes and conversations with thoughtful guests, we explore vision, identity, love, intuition, courage, creativity, and what it means to live as the woman you are becoming.

This is where the ideas behind the True Lens Method™ come to life—in stories, conversations, and reflections designed to help you see yourself, and your possibilities, differently.

Featured Testimonial

I met Tricia just after a breakup, and she turned out to be the missing piece in my healing journey. Week after week, she was a compassionate, encouraging guide— helping me recognize the ways I was unintentionally blocking love. Her belief in me shifted something deep inside. A few months later, I met the love of my life. I truly believe it was Tricia’s presence, wisdom, and support that helped me become ready to receive the kind of relationship I had always dreamed of.

K.B., now in a committed relationship

Let's Discover Your Path Together!

Whether you have questions about coaching, want to know more about my journey, or are ready to take the first step toward transformation, I’d love to hear from you. Reach out and let’s start a conversation!